Ladies,

In May, I had the pleasure of attending a local Devil Dog Golf Tournament, traditionally held on Armed Forces Day. The event was a meaningful way to honor the men and women who currently serve, as well as those who have served before them. Before the tournament begins, we gather for a toast and pause to remember those members who are no longer with us. It is a simple tradition, but one that reminds us of the lasting friendships and shared commitment within our organizations.

Shortly afterward, I attended the Memorial Day service at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier in Arlington National Cemetery. It was a solemn and moving occasion dedicated to remembering those who gave their lives in service to our country. As I approached the tomb carrying the wreath, accompanied by two of our own veterans, I felt deeply honored to represent the Auxiliary in such a meaningful ceremony. Our flag bearers, Karen Mastriania and Tammy Rivera, represented the Auxiliary with dignity and pride.

As we move through the remainder of June, we also take time to honor our fathers on Father’s Day. Many Department Conventions and Division Conferences will continue during this time as well. Please remember to invite a mentor to conduct your installation of officers and complete the Installation of Officers’ report. It is also important to review your Bylaws, especially regarding the number of offices one member may hold. When a member fills multiple positions, it can unintentionally limit opportunities for other members to become involved. Everyone wants to feel needed and valued and sometimes they just need to be asked.

IF ONLY …

IF ONLY I had been asked to join the auxiliary unit that helps make my detachment’s events welcoming and engaging.

IF ONLY I had been asked to suggest a new fundraiser or help with an ongoing project.

IF ONLY I had been asked to bring a dessert to meeting night.

IF ONLY I had been asked to check in on a member that we haven’t seen for a while.

IF ONLY I had been reminded to submit my dues to the membership chairperson.

IF ONLY I had been asked to record and report my volunteer hours.

IF ONLY I had been asked to serve as an officer at the unit or department level.

These are just some of the reasons that we may lose newer members, when we forget how to value every member. Not every member is able to attend every meeting, which is why finding ways to include everyone remains so important. Some members may no longer drive at night or may face mobility challenges or have a difficult time finding a babysitter. Others might benefit from meetings held at different times or on different days. Sometimes a small adjustment can make a significant difference in helping members stay involved and feel connected.

Although we are all volunteers, it is important that we encourage others to step forward and share their talents. New ideas and fresh perspectives help strengthen our units and support continued growth. If your unit uses Zoom or similar platforms, consider how beneficial these tools can be for keeping homebound members connected and engaged.

Let us continue reaching out to one another, strengthening the bonds of friendship and service that make our Auxiliary so special.

Warm regards,
Dotty Sanning

MCLANatPres2024@gmail.com